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Aug 19, 2002 Quiet Down: Find some time for solitude to listen to the small, quiet voice inside. You must get away from the busy-ness of the 24/7 world to stop and think, "Who am I?" Ask yourself, "Who do I want to be five years from now? Ten years from now?" Start by taking inventory, just like a smart business person would. Reach Out: Use your friends as an informal "Board of Advisors." You need friends with whom you can safely share your dreams, who believe in you and will make constructive suggestions. And friends who will hold you accountable and say, "Are you just talking about it again, or are you going to do it?" If you need a particular expertise - financial planning, coaching, legal help - shaping your thoughts with trusted colleagues is a necessary step. Plan Like A CEO: If you were going on vacation, you’d plan where to go and what to do each day. What do you want to see along the way? Where do you need to make reservations? What do you need to pack? You should plan at least that carefully for your everyday life. Where do you want to go? What gifts do you have that you want to use? How much money will it take to accomplish your goals or change your lifestyle so you can use those gifts? Shore Up Your Foundation: Most women who make a successful transition say their faith was an essential part of the process. When you are walking a tightwire, you need a gyroscope to keep your bearings. Your values give you the equilibrium you need in changing times. Jump In: Start small if you must. Or go a step at a time. Completing a transition takes time and determination, but this is how you get started. ------------ Teresa Cook is the official "home" columnist for Useless-Knowledge.com. Teresa is a 25 year old homemaker who lives in Idaho. She is married and has two children. Email Teresa: tdcook92@hotmail.com ------------ |
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