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Mar 11, 2003 You have to admit there is something to having a pet. I would define myself as a cat person with a slight lean to wanting a dog but only if the dog can learn to clean up after itself. Presently I do not live somewhere that would allow a dog the free reign and space it should be allowed to have. By moving in with my sweetheart, I immediately adopted his two cats. They certainly have their own unique personalities. I never seem to get tired of watching them as they play, eat, drink, fight, and especially sleep. Sometimes I wish I could read their thoughts, just to find out what they really think of me. Of course, maybe I wouldnt like what they are thinking. Growing up I went through many pets from fish, hamsters, cats, dogs, a rabbit, to birds. Of all the animals, except for fish, which is a cruel pet to give a child when they die so quickly, the easiest to take care of were cats. There is something about their independence and cleanliness that appeals to me. I find the demeanor of a cat for the most part very loving and sweet although they have a tendency to go into complete spasmo mode. If you have a cat you might have recognized this behavior. The tail is completely flared like a peacock, fur is practically standing straight up and their back is arched. I laugh when this happens because I dont know what set the animal off, but tearing around the house full speed will crack me up every single time. They arent always that affectionate and sometimes you have to hunt them down to find them. But when they do want the attention, they let you know. Hamsters and rabbits didnt do it for me. I was lucky to have them when I was young and my mother ended up cleaning their cages for the most part. One day it was left to me and I couldnt stand it. Quickly I was given the choice to add it to my chore list or give it away to a friend. Since I wasnt terribly attached, my good friend Andrea quickly found herself with the stinky little thing. Dogs of course are faithful, will lie around your feet or choose to be anywhere you are. If you are lucky and wise you get the dogs that arent yappy and obnoxious. My favorite breeds are Golden Retrievers and cocker spaniels. They have a gentle look in their eyes that just melts my heart. But as I look outside with the piles of snow that refuse to melt, I am thankful to not have to take a dog out for a walk and especially glad I am not toting around a shovel and bag. I admire those who find this activity pleasant, but I am not there yet. I know it isnt like I dont clean up poop, the dreaded litter box reminds me everyday that I am not free of responsibility. Just when I had been thrilled to never change another diaper again as my son sat upon the potty chair, I am once again thrust into the limelight of disposing poop. Oh well, I guess there could be worse things. Everyone knows how adorable a baby animal is and I find myself wanting to be one of those people who take home every puppy and kitten I see. Pet shops tend to make me very sad because I see their sweet little faces and hear the tiny mews and yips that call out to me. I have to make myself leave and then they stay on my mind for several hours. Quickly I calculate in my head if I can afford them, shots, food, litter, a new house with a big yard, vet bills, and all the great accessories, beds, collars, and toys I would want to spoil them with. Soon after the thought of taking them home goes away, but I know if I could, I would. Dont even get me started on wild animals like pandas and such, a great thought, but I already know it just isnt in the cards for me. Regardless of what pet you choose, as long as you have room to spare and a little love to give you will find the rewards are more than worth it. A little care and affection can go a long way. Days when you feel alone or cold they are great little heating pads or sympathetic companions as well as a great dose of medicine when you are sick. About the author: Nancy Jackson is a full time author and poet with works in Literati, Twilight Times, Anotherealm, Sonny World, and various anthologies. Her pasttimes include spending time with her loved ones, drinking wine, and lots of writing! Email Nancy Jackson: coryann93@yahoo.com ------------ Comment on this column in the forum. ------------ |
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