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Mar 7, 2003 I am a true fan of romantic comedies. To watch a movie that inspires so many emotions at once, to laugh, cry and sigh ahhh all in a two-hour movie, is my kind of entertainment. In fact I love to sit side by side with my brave and supportive guy and let myself be swept away. I call him brave because he sits there, probably bored to tears, knowing exactly how the movie will end up (course so do I) and doesnt complain. Once in awhile I think I have caught him enjoying himself and he is always ready to grab me a puffs tissue when necessary. What a guy. I really appreciate that about him. Though for putting him through all that, I in turn have to watch some things only he likes and there are many more of his guy movies than there are romantic comedies. I guess it is a fair enough trade off. Yes, most of them weave the same web of a storyline. Guy sees girl, girl sees guy, somehow through a surprising or twisted turn of events they fall in love and there is always the gut- wrenching tear-provoking scene where one of them professes their ultimate heartfelt confessions of true love and it is a happy ending. Typically we see Julia Roberts, Meg Ryan, Sandra Bullock, or Drew Barrymore here for the females. In the men category I would place Hugh Grant, Richard Gere, an occasional newcomer, and well, Hugh Grant. I am not complaining mind you, these actors and actresses play their roles well enough and I will watch them over and over again in this category. In fact, the role of the man has finally developed into a very romantic and thoughtful gentleman who is comfortable expressing his love and not afraid of it. That is a big step and an appreciated one at that. It is refreshing to be able to celebrate something as powerful and beautiful as love. Sometimes I laugh more, sometimes I cry more, but regardless when the movie is over I sigh a deep long sigh, smile, hug my guy, and feel good inside. There is nothing wrong with a happy ending. There are chick flicks and then there are ultra chick flicks. Believe it or not, romantic comedies do not always fit in this area. I consider a chick flick to be where the role of the guy is small and very underdeveloped. Sometimes the chick flicks are a very in depth look into the life of a woman or a group of women and there is little romantic flair involved. The ultra chick flicks I wont even watch and I dont care who is in them. They represent the women that are sick of me, hate men, or spend so much time with their girlfriends that the movie turns into a gossipy, boring, yawn-inducing fiasco. These movies do not appeal to me and I wouldnt subject my partner to them either. For me these are about as entertaining as war movies. Not interested. I notice many romantic comedies get picked over by the guys because they are too conscious of the chick flick notion and think all movies based on love belong there. Which is too bad because a guy can gain some serious brownie points bringing home a movie he knows she wants to watch more than anything. But I give credit where credit is due. There are many men all too happy to sit with their loved ones and reflect on what they have in their own relationship. Sometimes these movies can give them great insight into how to be more romantic or maybe a different way to approach matters. I believe that because the role of the male actor is allowed more substance, it makes it much easier for the guys to sit through them. They do not always cater to the woman, just most of the time. Not every movie is going to be great or entertaining, there are always some flops, but it is true with any film and everyone has their favorites. Other movies of interest to me are some action movies, provided the effects arent overly done and there is an actual substance to them. A plotline is preferred. I like, a good comedy, beautifully done dramas with intense performances, westerns starring John Wayne, fantasy themed movies, and suspenseful shows. I can do without science fiction and horror for the most part, as they dont seem to keep my attention. I like to be surprised, brought through someones journey, be made to think or appreciate what I have, and to be left feeling moved inside. The same old tired movies of cops and their partners, martial art masters and their partners, or the cop that is being hunted (typically by a partner or someone they put away in jail seeking revenge) have been played out. Sometimes they work for a night when you dont care what you watch. I call them prelude to sleep movies. Regardless though, I will always choose a romantic comedy first because the dialogue is fun, the characters are almost always the most colorful you will ever see, and the chemistry for the most part leaves some sort of emotional impact. I have never been one to live with the idea of a prince charming rescuing me or the classic fairy tale ending, but I recognize that I have an honorable knight by my side, who may not be in armor but loves me for who I am and for that I am thankful. About the author: Nancy Jackson is a full time author and poet with works in Literati, Twilight Times, Anotherealm, Sonny World, and various anthologies. Her pasttimes include spending time with her loved ones, drinking wine, and lots of writing! Email Nancy Jackson: coryann93@yahoo.com ------------ Comment on this column in the forum. ------------ |
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