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Oct. 27, 2004 Romantic love is one experience that can no doubt leaves a sour taste in our mouths if those first few instances of this highly discussed practice have bad end results. Take for example the person who has been a victim of infidelity, then the 'trust' issue may take a while before it is reinforced in the particular relationship, if at all. For once someone's trust has been violated, the association with the person who committed such a violation may be difficult to regain, so then the bond ultimately comes to a bitter end, leaving the faithful person in the relationship to try and pick up and repair what is left of their self esteem and confidence. For why embark on a monogamous union, when sometime down the road of this affiliation, one decides to stray from his/her partner to look elsewhere for attention from someone else? Even though thousands of books have given the subject of love and its many complications lots of reasons and solutions, is it enough to make one so reluctant to take a chance with another a fair opportunity, when subconsciously, he/she is aware that an unhappy ending may be the result. Some people are not willing to take the chance again, especially after he/she has regained their self confidence and a good portion of their self esteem for fear they, might be shattered once more. And that is fine, for you were fine before that person entered your life and probably made you more aware of certain aspects of your personality. For maybe, before you set out on this road of love, you probably thought that this type of love was reserved for the lucky few. But you were gallant enough to give it a try, so do not feel so bad. If you or someone you know has been a victim of unhappy results when pertaining to romantic encounters, do not feel as if it is the end of the world, for once you start blaming yourself for things that did not make your relationship work, you will feel worse. Just remember that it takes two to make or break any association. ------------ About the author Judy Ramsook: My first book titled: "Karen's Adventure" which is about two young girls who go in search of their missing parents, is now available. I was born and raised in Trinidad & Tobago, then in the mid eighties I came to the US where I attended San Antonio College and The University Of Texas At San Antonio. Visit: www.publishedauthors.net/g2rdy Email: j2rdy@hotmail.com Tell a friend about this site! ------------ |
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