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May 23, 2004 She loves me, she loves me not; he loves me, he loves me not. Almost everyone has read or heard those words about someone's love. However, those words imply guesswork about someone loving you or not loving you. Besides that guesswork, what does the word love guarantee? Does it guarantee that you will live happily ever after? Does the word love mean that you won't quarrel? Does the word love mean that you'll wake up every day in loving bliss? Does the suggested meaning of love guarantee anything? In fact, no one has ever written a textbook on love, falling in love, or being in love. Think about it, a mother picks up her child and says, "I love you". To paraphrase it, what did she say. So she holds her child in one hand and reaches for some popcorn and says,"I love this". Does that mean, if you are the child being held, that you are tantamount to a few kernels of popcorn. Lets say you are sitting on a couch with your girlfriend watching a video, and she says, "I love this video"; is her love for you equal to a mere video? When parents get a divorce; does that mean the love they swore once-upon-a-time was a lie? Where did the original longing, eagerness, and tactual inclination for your lover go? Mother or father is not living at home any longer; does that mean they were lying when they told you that they loved you, that is the child who is dismayed by mommy or daddy not living at home anymore. Does your mother's or father's love mean they won't display an ill-tempered manner? If love is tough, then who wants it? After all, the implied meaning behind love is a sense of well-being, and tenderness. Love does not need to be lost, nor does it need to be found. It needs to be properly defined. All too frequently, love, falling in love, and being in love are counterfeited. That brings me to my upcoming book: Counterfeits of Love, The Original How-To Guide. Being in love is now an exact science. It can be measured down to the most minute detail. So stop applying guesswork to your behavior of love. You don't want a mere relationship, you want love's interbonding. You don't want a "Soulmate", you want a lovemate. And you want some guarantees to go with it. ------------ About the author: Ronald W. Keyes has been published as a magazine contributor since 1986. His original book was co- authored by the renowned Dr. John Money. His second book COUNTERFEITS OF LOVE: Being In Love The Original How-To Guide, is the only genuine reference sourse for the behavior of love ever written. Email: authorof1@aol.com Tell a friend about this site! ------------ |
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