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June 22, 2004 There's a myth disseminating in the atmosphere of how friendship should be, yet humanity has lost sight of its true meaning. Although friendship can be defined by many definitions it is not so easily explained. The Oxford Dictionary defines its significance as & quotes "a person whom one is on terms of mutual affection independently of sexual or family love". But to me friendship means so much more! THE MEANING: Friendship is being available for one another when no one else will, to assist each other in any need having no ulterior motives or expecting anything. When adversities arise in each other's life, you're fervent to defend and console until things becomes alright. It’s to enjoy the essence of life and all its pleasures in the company of your friends whom ever they may be. Now the big test arise of a true friend (which is easily said than done) forgiving and forgetting all flaws made and allowing your actions to always remain the same. However to do this in reality, Christ needs to step in and turn some things around on both sides. Friendship is having a positive attitude and out look on life, trying to protect you by avoiding those who transmit negative feelings. Having to give up your rights to maintain peace, stability and to love people no matter what they say or do. Caring enough to tell the truth even if it hurts and always willing to motivate others to succeed for higher in their lives. As a friend keeping your word always when anything is said or told and interceding on their behalf in prayer asking God to have his way in their lives. Having a heart to help someone else in need that’s hungry, by offering something to eat or recognizing those who can’t afford to buy clothing themselves, by offering them yours or buying an outfit or two. Perhaps you find persons who need a listening ear to share their troubles with. Be aware when God reveals something to us either in visions or in dreams, it is not for us to gossip but to pray earnestly. Yes! Friendship is like a relationship but not as intimate as two couples dating but somehow through dealing with the cares of this life, we've lost track of this insight of what a true friend suppose to be. As friend’s mistakes is frequently made and no matter what the circumstances is that person deserves to be forgiven even if you decided not to be their friend anymore. Always leave with a clean slate! Now days there are more pretenders than the realist who values friendship. Therefore, allow me to clarify, Friendship is real and its meaning is distinct. If you can't be a friend then it is better to be just an acquaintance. Wouldn't you agree? ------------ About the author: Meggan Lightbourne is a mother of one, a Bahamian writer and poet living in one the beautiful island of the Bahamas. Meggan started writing at the age of five where is kept a personal diary of all her thoughts and experiences. As she matures, her passion for writing became a loved hobby as she wrote short stories and poetry. She is a first time author of a book entitled, "DEEP EMOTIONS" which will soon be out. She is also apart of the Bahamas Writers Group in Nassau and a moderator for one of the online writers forums: Article, Story, Poem or Book Critique Area. Other than here, Meggan take delight in contributing poetry to two magazines, one is an on-line Magazine called "WILD VIOLET" and a Bahamain Magazine called "HEY MON". She also has a website that is currently being reconstruct. You will be notified as to when it will be finished. Email: megganl2003@yahoo.com Tell a friend about this site! ------------ |
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