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Apr 16, 2004 Dating when we are over 40 can be just as challenging, rewarding and scary as dating was in our 20's and 30's. One of the earliest lessons we are given in social situations is to maintain appropriate eye contact. Look, then look away. Don't stare too long. Don't be mistaken for a stalker. By the time we are in our 40's, aren't we supposed to have mastered the art of eye contact? As I found during last night's dinner date, some people could use a refresher course. The guy couldn't keep his eyes off of mine; literally. He took the term "eye contact" to a new, undesired level. It was creepy. I'm used to my dates' eyes wandering down when they think I won't notice to sneak a peak at my well- endowed chest. When I see that, I take a deep breath of relief; it's one sign that the guy is somewhat normal. That this guy didn't try and sneak a peek was the first sign there was something wrong here. His unwavering stare felt like a Star Trek tractor beam desperately trying to pull Captain Kirk's shuttle into the cargo bay before the Klingon Bird of Prey uncloaked and destroyed it. I was grateful when he finally excused himself to go to the restroom! When he asked if he could see me again, I had to use the "faithful" old ploy of "why don't you give me your number and I'll call you after I check my schedule?" This evening will haunt me each time a guy says he'd really like to "see me sometime." ------------ About the author: I am the Founder & Managing Editor of TruePoetMagazine.com. I am the Founder & Director of Poetic License Writers Group. I am a member of the Arlington Poetry Project, Illinois State Poetry Society, Chicago Writers Association and National Association of Women Writers. I perform public as well as private poetry readings. My poetry has been published in the small press and various poetry magazines. My first poetry book, "True Reflections," will be released this summer by PublishAmerica. My second poetry book, "True Emotions," is currently under review. I have three other books in various stages of production: (1) a non-fiction “how-to” that tells how an aspiring poet can become a published author, (2) a book of poetry dedicated to mothers and motherhood and (3) a book of tips on how to care for extra long hair. Visit MichelleAileneTrue.com or email: michelleailenetrue@yahoo.com Tell a friend about this site! ------------ |
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