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Oct. 14, 2005 I actually belong to two matchmaking service. The first one I joined last year. It is an adult site. I am a middle aged woman competing with the twenty year old BOT's. . At first I didn't get many responses. I finally submitted a photo of my double DD's and got forty responses in one day. I got lots of male attention but not the kind I wanted. I recently became a paid member on a Senior matchmaking site. I don't get as many responses but they do seem to be a nicer bunch of guys. I don't need forty men a day at my doorstep. Just one good one. I write articles, participate in the advice columns and have an Astrology blog on both of the the dating sites. I have met intelligent people of both genders. One the adult site, I advise the young men on how to improve their profiles and impress the young ladies. I still get forty responses a day but most of the men don't want to consummate relationship beyond the webcam. I tell them to meet me at the Sushi Bar and bring a diamond ring. They run real fast. Somehow, finding Mr. Right seems to be a secondary consideration. Of course, I have no illusions about having found Mr. Right within my two marriages. My heart was broken long before I committed matrimony. I screwed up long years before I got my MRS Degree in my thirties. There was clues that the first marriage would be a disaster long before we actually did the deed. As I was walking to the altar the second time, I kept thinking "what in Hades am I doing?" That wedding made the media okay but not the society pages. It took place at a Nudist Resort. The song by Judy Collins goes, "I've looked at love from both sides now, from give and take. But still somehow, it's love's illusions, I recall. " ...I am STILL an incurable romantic at heart! I haven't given up on love in spite of the battle scars. The only way to find Mr. Right is to be Ms. Right. I am not sure I know how to do that. It is too much pressure trying to be hip and slick. I know how to be me and do what I do best. I cast Horary Astrology Charts and write stories even on the dating sites. It is possible that Mr. Right will fall in love with me by discovering who I am when he reads one of my blogs. Meanwhile, I am focusing on writing a novel and getting published instead of putting my energy in the quest for the "Great Him!" Somehow, I don't think I will be remarried to volunteer psychic at a Christian School either.... ------------ About the author: Bonijean Isaacs is a freelance writer and Astrologer in West Virginia. Email: inez4liberty@gmail.com Tell a friend about this site! ------------ All articles are EXCLUSIVE to Useless-Knowledge.com. Please link to this article rather than copying and pasting it onto your site (which would be unauthorized and illegal). |
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