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May 5, 2005 I am a jealous person. I know that this has been a problem for me in my relationships. Trust does not come easy for a jealous person. My poor husband gets hurt every time I find a female co-worker that I find attractive. It's not that he finds them pretty but I think they are prettier than me. These woman are also more accomplished than I am, in my opinion, and that they could offer him better. What is better? In my opinion better is... the woman can listen to him and relate to him on a level I don't. I don't understand accounting. I don't understand the pressures he is under. They do because they share with him eight hours in a day and sometimes longer. Then I turn around and accuse him of being attracted to these women. I never consider that he is with me and only me. I really don't think the ring on my finger is a good thing to feel safe in. I want to since my parents were married for a long time, they had a passionate relationship and loved each other till my mother died. But... My husband gets angry when I get jealous. I can see where he is coming from but I can't help it. I want him to know I want him. I want him to feet wanted. I know I can push him away if I persist in my behavior but... Jealousy is not a nice emotion. It means wanting possession and an insecurity. My husband tells me he wants me and loves me... Now how can I not believe him? ------------ About the author: Being a full time writer is the hardest job that I have tried. I have written two books that are currently not published because the company that did publish them went out of business. I have written three childrens books and am currently in the process of finishing my third novel. Please write me with any thought that comes to mind about my columns or anything else, opinions are appreciated. Email Amanda Baker: amaycatbaker@yahoo.com Tell a friend about this site! ------------ All articles are EXCLUSIVE to Useless-Knowledge.com and are not allowed to be posted on other websites. ARTICLE THIEVES WILL BE PROSECUTED! |
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